I’ve turned travel into a lifelong passion for personal growth
Nine years ago, a younger, more naïve, extremely terrified version of myself left for South Africa & Botswana on a Global Exchange through Rotary International. I had not traveled much and certainly not out of the country.
It’s hard to believe that since then, I’ve traveled to over 50 countries (some more than twice) and to more than half the states, in well over 300 flights.
Photo: Nicole Thomas
The unspoiled natural beauty in Iceland was so healing
No matter what is happening in my life traveling has always given me the confidence to handle challenging situations, taught me patience, flexibility and an openness to what each day brings. I’ve learned to live with less, develop an appreciation of my own strength, different perspectives and how much good there is in the world.
Most people look at my photos while I am traveling and think I’m always happy (because I’m always smiling!) If truth be told, I’ve had my share of challenges and overcame them just like anyone else; difficult relationships, anxiety attacks, domestic violence, periods of being down and depressed and even a few hospital stays overseas.
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I traveled to Egypt and the landscapes and culture released me from my worries
These have been offset by promotions at work, going back to school, becoming an aunt to the single cutest baby on the planet and the joy of making friends all over the world.
No matter what I am going through, unexpectedly it is travel that has been the most beautiful, life changing gift of all. I suspect we all have a version of the way life was supposed to be, but if we can let go of that, the world can open up in beautiful ways you never imagined.
I’ve been so humbled by so many beautiful souls who opened their arms and doors to me all around the world. And I am also extremely grateful to those who support me from home. The amount of love I feel from them is overwhelming.
Photo: Nicole Thomas
A good friend said to me today, “South Africa was the sunrise of living your best life.” (And little did I know then, when I was almost crippled in fear and almost didn’t go that it really was.)
If you are a dreamer whether it’s traveling more, taking more adventures or maybe something entirely different, you don’t have to listen to a timeline or rules or expectations from others – just trust yourself!
Even today, I still get nervous before a trip, still feel some anxiety and fight bouts of depression but when I look back on my life I think I will be able to say, “I’ve done my best to handle it like the BOSS that I am.”
No matter what happens, I know I got this.
Photo: Nicole Thomas
A good friend said to me today, “South Africa was the sunrise of living your best life.” (And little did I know then, when I was almost crippled in fear and almost didn’t go that it really was.)
In a world where it’s hard to believe in anything fully, always believe in yourself. You can! You are capable!
